I'm probably a bit older than you. And I here you that this generation has a different temperament as I have few in their mid 20's
What is lost in this conversation is the impact Frost's treatment of AM, Wondale and Luke have on the team.
If the team believes what Frost says about AM, Wondale, or Luke (future of team) then two of them leave, what is the message being heard by teammates?
I don't know what message is being received but what has not changed is individuals even young kids (delivery might be softer) want a vision to the future that they can grab onto. As it is difficult for me and others at this point to buy in to Frost's ability to right this ship, I think the same is true for quite a few players, some of which have chosen to pack their bags.
Consider the notion that after his last year at UCF, Frost's offense was hot, hot, hot. Who wouldn't want to be a part of that especially at a blue blood program like NU? Hasn't worked out that way. Disillusionment can be a strong motive to move on.