I don't live in an area where soccer is a huge sport so I will take you word for it. I have a lot of first hand experience with bball coaches as a coach and as a parent.
I live in a small town of about 2100 in Idaho. My youngest, like
@CrabHusker was the shortest power forward on the team as a freshman. Scrappy player plays good defense will score 4-6 points a game have 4 fouls and the most rebounds on the team while defending against a guy 5" taller than himself. Loves football more than basketball. Between his freshman and sophomore year all summer, the coach, wants kids coming to open gym and playing summer league basketball. He makes it to a few things but he is working and making money and lifting at night.
Before this season teams have always been split up freshman, reserves and varsity, always. This year the coach has an"C" team then reserve and varsity. My son and a couple of other sophomores are placed on what used to be the freshman team instead of the reserve per usual and there are 3-4 freshman playing reserve that made it to all the summer workouts. He never said at the beginning of summer that you need to be at x amount of things. He never said we are now having a C team instead of a freshman team.
So my son and the few other Sophs played out the season and then never played again. My son wrestled his last 2 years of HS. The thing is that Parma, my son's HS, wasn't any good at basketball basically the whole time he was in HS. They won maybe 4 games a year tops. Those 3-4 kids that coach ran off would have helped that team. One kid was 6'2" and another was 6'5" by the time they were seniors. He wanted kids to make a choice, and if you weren't all in on basketball than he didn't want you.
The head BBall coach at Norfolk where I taught was the same way. Wanted guys in the gym 24-7.