Call it paranoia or immaturity or what have you, many of his actions were reactions. He lashed out at people when he felt he or the guys he promised to stand in their corner were being done wrong either on the field, in the media, etc..... That is what you want from a coach. For him to be willing to go to war for his players. Now how he handled it, of course most of us would agree wasn't healthy in the long run, but there are also many things that occurred surrounding the players that would cause the players to believe what Bo was "teaching/encouraging" (me against the world) to be true. I was with certain players and heard random ridicules in public (Niles Paul). Let's not act like we were always crazy about Martinez, I know I surely wasn't. I stopped following K.Bell on twitter some time back, but I was there long enough to see the inconsistency of Husker fans in his direction. Hell even on this board, there was a fan who made highly immature comments about Bo and his child. That same poster made a dumb comment ridiculing K.Bell's character, discrediting his leadership ability because of his HAIR........yes, his HAIR.
Bo had a great opportunity here, but it's not like he walked on rose pedals 100% of the time. When you aren't even allowed to have a private conversation amongst guys expressing your frustration, because someone is recording it and waiting for the "perfect time" to release so that they can get the Husker nation to hate you that much more.
I've met Bo multiple times. I never felt he hated me or anyone with me. And he knew I was a husker fan. I also wasn't offended when he lashed out at fans who were vulgar to his players and/or two faced with support in that game. His anger didn't address me as a person. I actually agreed with some of what was said, though I would never react the way he did.
But for the things that Bo was HIRED for, he accomplished with flying colors. All except winning on the biggest stage. But he did all in his power to do so. It just wasn't enough. Doesn't mean I should hate him. He was still a Husker.