You certainly don't make yourself look good trying to block a kid. But that cuts both ways. You also don't look good bailing out when opportunities are being provided to you. It certainly isn't often that a player with so many opportunities transfers and questions will follow.Don't get me wrong, I don't want to see him go to Minnesota... or anywhere but Nebraska, for that matter!
I'd be doing whatever I reasonably could to repair the relationship, but if he truly wants to leave then shake hands and wish him well. He'll regret it when we stomp the Gophers this fall.
From my view, and I don't have all the details, I think he is best to stay. What I know is that camp isn't far away and he hasn't entered the transfer portal yet.