You're a peacemaker, which is a great quality to have. It just doesn't work in a forum like this. My suggestion would be, instead of always saying how both sides of an issue are valid, just state what you believe and why, and leave it at that. You can do that and still be appropriate and respectful. In fact, you'd probably get better responses if you took a side and stuck to your opinion, whatever the issue is. Stand your ground, but do so respectfully. Most fans want to hear what you believe and why, and not about how you see both sides.