Which are you when it comes to arguments with those close to you? For me it depends. I have to be REALLY wound up before I throw the first bomb of an altercation. Now that being said, I will resort to the most downright dirty cutting stuff I can find if things are not resolved in a matter of a few minutes. I am renowned for taking a relatively benign argument and escalating it just to have it done. Usually ends up with quiet time for reflection and then apologies, but those around me have learned not to start with me over piddley stuff. Life is just too damn short to sweat the small stuff.
So which are you?