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    You Are Not Special

    This SO needs to be replayed every year at every graduation for all of eternity.






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    I heard a short clip of this on the radio. Thanks for the whole speech. Nice dose of reality!
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    Good speech. Worth 12 minutes.

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    It's an important message and needs lots of repeating to have any impact on our current society of over-indulgent parents and youth with a resultant sense of entitlement.
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    Brilliant.
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    I have a 20 spot that says at least 10 parents called and complained to the school district because the speaker at graduation told their child he/she is not special.
    Nebraska fans, this is called someone in your conference having your back…welcome to the Big Ten. - HawkeyeNation

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    Kind of insulting to the kids and parents in the audience, eh? There are people who work crazy hard to graduate from high school. There are parents who work super hard to give their kids advantages and opportunities.

    In my opinion, this guy tried to make graduation about himself and his pithy phrases, and not really about the students. The absolute height of irony, given his message.

    This guy needs to work harder. Here's hoping he used his 3 month summer vacation to hone his message a little. Aim high, buddy. Aim high.

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    Quote Originally Posted by huskerator 5000 View Post
    Kind of insulting to the kids and parents in the audience, eh? There are people who work crazy hard to graduate from high school. There are parents who work super hard to give their kids advantages and opportunities.

    In my opinion, this guy tried to make graduation about himself and his pithy phrases, and not really about the students. The absolute height of irony, given his message.

    This guy needs to work harder. Here's hoping he used his 3 month summer vacation to hone his message a little. Aim high, buddy. Aim high.
    Your missing the point.

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    Message is very similar to part of a George Carlin routine about every kid being special... Although Carlin made his point with more f-bombs.


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    Quote Originally Posted by huskerator 5000 View Post
    Kind of insulting to the kids and parents in the audience, eh? There are people who work crazy hard to graduate from high school. There are parents who work super hard to give their kids advantages and opportunities.

    In my opinion, this guy tried to make graduation about himself and his pithy phrases, and not really about the students. The absolute height of irony, given his message.

    This guy needs to work harder. Here's hoping he used his 3 month summer vacation to hone his message a little. Aim high, buddy. Aim high.


    Quote Originally Posted by jikastew View Post
    I have a 20 spot that says at least 10 parents called and complained to the school district because the speaker at graduation told their child he/she is not special.

    Sadly, Jikastew, I believe you are probably way low on that "10". Case in point: Huskerator5000

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    Quote Originally Posted by bilsker View Post
    Sadly, Jikastew, I believe you are probably way low on that "10". Case in point: Huskerator5000
    Right, I definitely called the school district about my kid not being special.

    No, I just pointed out the irony in this guy's bitter and self-indulgent soapbox lecture which did not contain the proper measure of respect for graduation. If this guy thinks graduating from high school is worthy of no praise, it's his fault a heck of a lot more than it is the fault of "mommy" who "ordered from the caterer." Make it more rigorous if you've got a problem with it.

    For the love of Pete he starts out with totally off-topic amateur stand-up about marriage that would barely keep him on stage at open mic night. Why should these kids try hard now, as he enjoins? So a showboat from the peanut gallery who has stumbled into a position of prominence gets to tell them again what a bunch of dweebs they still are? I don't get it.

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    Awesome speech!
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    Quote Originally Posted by huskerator 5000 View Post
    Right, I definitely called the school district about my kid not being special.

    No, I just pointed out the irony in this guy's bitter and self-indulgent soapbox lecture which did not contain the proper measure of respect for graduation. If this guy thinks graduating from high school is worthy of no praise, it's his fault a heck of a lot more than it is the fault of "mommy" who "ordered from the caterer." Make it more rigorous if you've got a problem with it.

    For the love of Pete he starts out with totally off-topic amateur stand-up about marriage that would barely keep him on stage at open mic night. Why should these kids try hard now, as he enjoins? So a showboat from the peanut gallery who has stumbled into a position of prominence gets to tell them again what a bunch of dweebs they still are? I don't get it.
    That which you call "bitter and self-indulgent" others would find realistic and worldly; especially in light of the general message.
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    Quote Originally Posted by huskerator 5000 View Post
    Right, I definitely called the school district about my kid not being special.

    No, I just pointed out the irony in this guy's bitter and self-indulgent soapbox lecture which did not contain the proper measure of respect for graduation. If this guy thinks graduating from high school is worthy of no praise, it's his fault a heck of a lot more than it is the fault of "mommy" who "ordered from the caterer." Make it more rigorous if you've got a problem with it.

    For the love of Pete he starts out with totally off-topic amateur stand-up about marriage that would barely keep him on stage at open mic night. Why should these kids try hard now, as he enjoins? So a showboat from the peanut gallery who has stumbled into a position of prominence gets to tell them again what a bunch of dweebs they still are? I don't get it.
    Did you listen to the whole thing? I could see how the first couple of minutes could turn you off, but the overall message was spot on. His audience was a bunch of wealthy kids who had been pressured from day one to do everything in their life geared toward improving their resume. He was giving them a very worthwhile message: there is more to life than achievements chalked up for the sake of burnishing college eligibility. Do things because you love to do them, and not for the sake of racking up accomplishments. It was a very worthwhile message, and it was well tailored to his audience. His reference to Dead Poets Society was no coincidence; his message was almost identical to that of Robin Williams' character.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ChitownHusker View Post
    Did you listen to the whole thing? I could see how the first couple of minutes could turn you off, but the overall message was spot on. His audience was a bunch of wealthy kids who had been pressured from day one to do everything in their life geared toward improving their resume. He was giving them a very worthwhile message: there is more to life than achievements chalked up for the sake of burnishing college eligibility. Do things because you love to do them, and not for the sake of racking up accomplishments. It was a very worthwhile message, and it was well tailored to his audience. His reference to Dead Poets Society was no coincidence; his message was almost identical to that of Robin Williams' character.
    Assuming this is a good summary of the speech--and I do because I trust the poster and don't feel like watching a graduation speech, yes, I'm lazy and commenting on something I'm not watching--sounds like a good message given the particular audience. I happen to live at Ground Zero of "everybody is awesome!" schooling, which is to say about 3 miles from Columbine High School. That forever damaged institution has its very valid reasons for a decade or more of touchy-feely high school education policy and I don't fault them one bit. I also think that everyone does have the potential to be great, special, world-altering, much as everyone has the potential to be mediocre, average, and inconsequential. Both paths and all points in between can lead to fulfilling lives, which given our limited time on this planet is all that really matters. Again, depending on the audience, one version of this message or another is highly appropriate. This reminds me of an interview with one of my favorite filmmakers, Joss Whedon, wherein the last two questions and answers were as follows:

    Q: Tell me a lie.
    A: You are important.
    Q: Tell me a secret.
    A: You are important.







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